(Closed) Curious as to where the ring is

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

My husband hid his at his parents house. He picked it up from there the day before he proposed. Your Fiance might not keep the ring in your house. But even if he does, don’t look for it. Just be patient.

Post # 5
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Newbee

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plannerpersonality :  I’m in the same boat! We went ring shopping 2 months ago and we have agreed that our wedding will be this year. Im having anxiety that he hasn’t proposed yet which leaves either little time for actually planning the wedding and I would really love to see the ring again. I don’t think he’s picked it up from the jewler though 🙁

Do your best not to look for it, I know that can be hard because I caught myself looking for it around the house.

Post # 6
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Helper bee

I totally understand! I know my ring exists, and we live together so it’s probably somewhere in the house. I’ve already seen it (I helped design it), so that’s not a surprise but he hid it just so I couldn’t guess when a proposal is coming. I work from home, and it’s so hard to just not look everyday! But I also don’t want to rob him of his excitement even if it means literally sitting on my hands.

Post # 8
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Helper bee

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plannerpersonality :  I haven’t stopped doing general tidying. My house would be a disaster. 😛 I think he’s smart enough to not hide it somewhere like one of his drawers, since I do all the laundry. I do have to actively stop myself from digging into the back corners of closets everytime I open them though.

In the course of writing this I just thought of a REALLY GOOD hiding place to add to the list of ones I’m not allowed to check.

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper

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plannerpersonality :  

Usually I simply cannot ever,  ever understand why  a man would keep a ring until later,  when he and his fiance ( often living together ) have  decided to get married  and have planned/chosen the ring together . I mean its hardly ” oh Sir Marmaduke this is so sudden and unexpected .I  hardly know what to say..”

Now here is something else for me not to understand  lol “He understands I despise holiday season propsals so it will probably be in the fall”

idk…… 
 

Post # 11
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Newbee

Wow you know heaps about your propsal.

It is imposable to not want to see it. But just think of it this way he should be the first one to see your face for when you first ever see it. And should be able to keep it a secret till then 

Feelings that you want to find it is normal but be careful about the whole thing. Part of the fun is not knowing and waiting. if you found out early or even saw the ring I dont believe it would be the same. 🙂 

Post # 13
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3235 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

Mine was in the safety deposit box at the bank. Don’t snoop.

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: Kentwood, MI

Trust me bee, I picked out my ring and it still isn’t here. It’s hard too wait. It’ll happen when he wants. No matter what, just be patient and let him take control.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

Just don’t snoop. 

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