(Closed) Custody battle before wedding

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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8727 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

You need to talk to him and/or seek counselling. You need to resolve these issues before you get married. You both sound like you are having issues- he with custody and the relationship and you with your relationship.

 

 

Post # 4
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57 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

This does not sound good at all. You guys need to talk asap. Once you’re married he’s likely to show you even less attention. Was he uninterested in the wedding before he started ther custody battle or just since it’s begu. Maybe he’s so stressed about that that he hasn’t realized how much he’s been neglecting you. Try talking to him before the wedding gets any closer! 

Post # 7
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3220 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

@Glow girl:   i genuinely do not feel the love i felt a year ago.

that’s your answer. yes, love changes and grows, but I’d never marry someone who I wasn’t head over heels in love with.  if he seems upset when you say you’re unhappy, would he go to counseling with you?

Post # 10
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1239 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

a relationship does change but I dont think it is right that he doesnt want to be affectionate with you at all (I mean espeically if he used to want to be), can you sit down & talk about it?  My Fiance doesnt enjoy wedding planning either, he gets a look of total boredom when I bring it up, but when it all comes down to it your Fiance should help with simple things like stuffing envolopes or help with other things so you can do wedding stuff.  Do you think your Fiance is depressed about his daughter?

Post # 11
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1697 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m more concerned for the child and the fact you feel neglected around her. I can say Asa parent, in the beginning it was hard on me cause at times I felt like they would play tug a war with me. And as a parent you always go to the child first. You have a very hard job being the step parent. I really hope you two find your happy medium. Getti

G marriage can be stressful but when a child is in the mix, plus a custody battle…wow, really difficult! Just know that you aren’t alone, my Fiance strugglesswitch my son and I feel they have a very good relationship. 

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