(Closed) Custom made engagement rings…. But he's not ready?

posted 5 years ago in Engagement
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2027

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applesweet13 :  I think there’s a lot of bees with “customer” made moissy rings. 

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Blushing bee

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joesbride1226 :  oh wow I don’t think I would like my ring if a customer made it 😉 hehe

OP, by saying “he is waiting until he is ready” I think he means waiting for the right time as in on a holiday or out at dinner or whatever would be considered a special moment/occasion to you. I highly doubt he means he is not ready emotionally because he has the ring so he definitely wants to propose to so I wouldn’t be upset. He is just waiting for the right time 🙂

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Blushing bee

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applesweet13 :  why? what makes you think that? There are obviously other issues if you can conclude that from him saying he is waiting until he is ready when you know he already has the ring. I find it hard to believe that someone would buy a ring if they weren’t emotionally ready.

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Busy bee

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gemstoneheart :   Well obviously yes it happens. She is alluding to all the posts where the guy has the ring and hasn’t proposed. 

But he doesn’t even have the rings!  So just enjoy the waiting time. Enjoy your relationship. 

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Bumble bee
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gemstoneheart :  her intial post said customer.  She changed it.

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Blushing bee

We have the ring and he has said he isn’t ready. I’ve been waiting since March. the waiting is hard in the beginning then I just kind of got over it. I have no idea what it means by being “ready” because it’s not like the second we get engaged we will be married. But I respect he needs his time and just need to accept that ball is in his court at this point in time. 

I’m not going to tell you to “just enjoy your relationship in the meantime” because that advice just makes me mad. Girl, he loves you enough to buy a ring, he sees a future in you, find comfort in that! 

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Blushing bee

And this is why I don’t really understand looking at specific rings/ ordering rings / buying rings before the actual proposal. 

If a guy went to looka at rings with me without proposing to me straigt away I would get so confussed. You either are ready to get engaged or not? If you are not why are you looking at rings?

I feel like this is just another way of putting pressure on a man which can result in the couple getting engaged before they are ready.

I think this all just makes it so confussing for everyone involved. 

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