- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
Ok, so to keep this post short I asked a very close friend of mine to be my Maid/Matron of Honor. About 2 months after we had a huge falling out and I cut her from the bridal party, as I wasn’t sure we would get past our issues.
Turns out we got past them so I asked her if she would accept a lower role (as I had asked my bestie to be my MOH) to which she responded with “I don’t know if I can afford the dress (which we haven’t even gone looking for) and what if I am pregnant?”
I told her that we could arrange a time to talk about it, but it would be fine. We arranged the time and I went to her place to talk to her. She had a friend over!! I was so pissed off becuase she knew why I was coming over!
Anyhow I let that go, but everytime i tried to talk to her about it she either didn’t have time and had to go home, or something else. I decided if she can’t make the effort why should I??
I cut her from my bridal party again after we had another huge arguement where she told me that I told her she wasn’t allowed to be pregnant at my wedding! (I would NEVER say that!). I was so upset by this arguement I called my Fiance and Maid/Matron of Honor and cried my heart out. My Fiance has told me he doesn’t want her at the wedding anymore becuase of how much she has hurt me. I didn’t say anything.
So after all this, I posted a status of facebook and tagged my bridal party. She asked me why I didn’t tag her. I didn’t respond. Now she won’t talk to me and I am needing your advice! Please HELP!
Should I keep her invited to the wedding or should I just call it quits?