Cute gift ideas for big brother

posted 1 week ago in Pregnancy
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I was 8 went my youngest brother was born, and my other brother was 6.  My parents bought us the “Puppy Surprise” plush dogs, that have a mystery number of mystery puppies inside them.  She didn’t let us open them until he was born.  (Which happened to be on my birthday lol)  Anyway, we were super excited about it at the time.  Not sure if your son is into that kind of thing, but I actually saw those dogs are still for sale at Target recently.  Some of them are pink and non-realistic girly colors, but some of them are normal dog colors.  There are probably lots of other toys that have to do with babies being born too.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

wallybee :  I think a big brother tshirt and a book that relates to being a new big sibling would be a good idea! Since he is so young I would probably take the route of making the big brother role seem like an exciting new responsibility. I was four when my brother was born and I vividly remember my mom and dad including me in every aspect of the new baby. I helped with feeding time (bottle baby), I helped with baths and putting him down for bed, I was even the first one to wake up if he got fussy in the night because we shared a room and would sometimes be able to settle him down before my mom even woke up. 

I think so long as you make sure he is included and consistently remind him that the baby is “his” as much as yours it will combat anything negative that your ex might spew out. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

My husband was 6 when his little brother was born and their parents gave him a huge box of Lego that was apparently ‘from’ his new brother. 

Post # 6
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Busy bee

tillymac :  same for me, I was 6 when my brother was born and I got a barbie doll house ‘from’ him. It was my most prized possession!

wallybee :  love the idea of a t shirt and book too, something to get him excited to be a big brother 

Post # 9
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Newbee

My parents got my brother and I a book called The Bears’ New Baby when they told us about my sister. My brother was 6 and I was 4. My brother was a lot more involved with “helping” than I was. I distinctly remember being disappointed that my sister couldn’t play with me, even though the book explains what newborns are like.

I definitley agree with the idea of making it clear that this is “his” baby, too, since it’s his sibling. Giving him a feeling of responsibility and ‘ownership’ might help him be more excited. You could also try showing him episodes of TV shows like Arthur or the Berenstein bears where they add a new baby to the family.

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