(Closed) cutting costs, is this a rude way to do it?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll:
    cut costs on as much as we can and serve everyone dinner : (77 votes)
    76 %
    serve family dinner, invite friends/extras for dancing and appetizers : (5 votes)
    5 %
    have the ceremony later in the afternoon and serve appetizers to everybody? : (19 votes)
    19 %
  • Post # 61
    1020 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    really, if someone asked for my address but then I never received anything, I’d think it strange but wouldn’t ever mention it, I’d assume there was some problem and I wasn’t invited, and then move on. us bees are often stuck on etiquette and insisting the bride must do things by the book to avoid offending people, but what about as a guest – would people seriously “chase up” a missing invite??? 

    Post # 62
    440 posts
    Helper bee

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    raliel:  That makes sense.  To be fair, the gift we gave was certainly proportional to that fact.

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