(Closed) Cz engagement ring

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
568 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Don’t worry about what people will think. There are many women now that walk around knowing or thinking they have a real diamond but they don’t. One of the side stones on my ring started to look dull because it is a diamond chip. No one has noticed and I still think my ring is beautiful. Since I’ve been engaged, no one has asked me if my ring is real….as they shouldn’t because that’s not important and it’s rude. Maybe that is what your fiance was able to afford…remember you can always upgrade your ring in the future. The most important thing is your fiance wants to spend the rest of his life with you…that’s all that matters!

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 5 months ago by Eirene00.
Post # 4
150 posts
Blushing bee

Don’t worry about what others think/say! Do you love it? That’s all that matters!

Honestly, I told my fiance before he proposed that I was okay with a moissanite (to help him save money). Although it was important to him to buy me a real diamond, I really couldn’t care less either way – it’s the thought that counts. I have a “real diamond”, and would not be able to tell it apart from the other CZ/moissanites I’ve seen on this site so please don’t even worry about it!

Post # 5
8366 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

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shields061:  He was so eager to ask you to marry him that he couldn’t wait. He bought the engagement ring he could afford now, so that he could ask you now. In my opinion, that’s much better than waiting forever just so he could propose with a diamond. Who cares what anyone thinks? Nobody should be thinking anything other than “how sweet!” And if they do think something negative, that’s a statement about them, not about you or your engagement. Congratulations, enjoy being engaged!

Post # 6
126 posts
Blushing bee

Don’t worry about what other people think. People who want to be negative about it will no matter what, they will find something wrong with it. Screw them, you should only care about what is important to you.

If you aren’t happy with it for yourself then you should say something. Did you have any conversations about your expectations before he proposed? That could be a good place to start the conversation. My DH suggests that you could ask your Fiance what attracted him to that stone rather than a diamond. Or he says you could suggest that you get a diamond band. Good luck!

Post # 7
4 posts

I think your ring is really pretty. It’s a symbol of his commitment to you, which is worth more than any bit of carbon. You’re not marrying ring observers, you’re marrying him. Congratulations!

Post # 8
1746 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

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shields061:  it’s beautiful. You’re in good company, many of us here and in real life have diamond simulant engagment rings. Moissanite and amora gems and cz are popular choices. I have a moissanite and so do a few of my friends.. Your ring is not anyones business but if you’re concerned others will know, you could volunteer what it is. That’s what I do because I can id moissy and I know others can. Even if you don’t tell anyone, can’t think anyone will be rude enough to ask. Congrats on your engagment!

Post # 9
705 posts
Busy bee

Congratulations, Bee! That’s a stunning ring and I wish you and your fiancé every happiness. 

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