- 11 years ago
- Wedding: June 2009
I have to agree with suzanno on this one. Your dad is using money to control you. Clearly, he sees this as his opportunity to create the day he envisions. I would suggest you politely and calmly have a conversation with him; but try and be firm and stand up for yourself. Like others have said, you need to be willing to sacrifice walking away from your dad’s financial assistance. If not, there is not much you can do or say that will get him to stop his controlling behavior.