(Closed) Dad pitching in, did not ask for help

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

That is SO nice!




Honestly, I wouldn’t make too big of a deal about those things, if he wants to surprise you, let him! I know its your wedding and you want everything to be done your way. But in the grand scheme of things, if your guestbook doesn’t match your colors, does it really matter? It’s the thought that counts… and it’s unique and personal. It’s one day of your life. When you look back, you will regret hurting his feelings way more than you will ever regret your wedding favors not being exactly what you wanted.




If you’re that worried about a specific element, I’d tell him and ask to see, help, and have input on it. Otherwise, I’d let him surprise you on the other things.


Post # 4
1880 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I’d just grin and bear it. Even if these things don’t go with your theme, they were made with love. (And no one is going to notice if the guestbook, favors, and bridal party gifts don’t go with the theme anyway.)

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