(Closed) Dang Christmas !!!!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Worker bee

Hehe well I don’t want to tell you not to be excited and to ruin your fun but I would just try to think of any single thing else that it could possibly be and just try to get excited about that *just in case*.  Then its a win-win situation.  If you don’t get the ring you wouldn’t have built your hopes up incredibly high to get them shattered on a holiday and if it is a ring, then that is awesome!!!

 

I had this problem over my birthday.  He told me he had this big dinner planned and that we needed our gps because we had to go out of town for the surprise and that I needed to get dressed up.  I was sure that he was going to propose then and it ended up not being a proposal at all.  At dinner when he started pulling my present out of his pocket he even said “don’t get excited, its not a ring”.  My birthday present ended up being nice but obviously nowhere near as exciting as a ring, so I spent the rest of the evening sad but I tried not to let it show.  Ugh, waiting is so horrible!

Post # 5
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Worker bee

Ohhh an ipad!  That would be something to get excited for!  I’m thinking about getting my boyfriend and ipad for christmas too!  Sounds to me like it could be a ring too but like you said, being a girl that is always my first thought.  And I obviously have been wrong before.  Just don’t let it ruin your day if its not like how I let it ruin my birthday.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

Just breathe! I know how you feel. I failed the challenge today when I asked if he’s bought my present already and he said don’t ask me about anything that rhymes with sing!LMAO

Just TRY to put it out of your head. Concentrate on anything!LOL

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

I’m not sure, but I think it’s for your past, present and future. 🙂 Cute idea!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Oooh I feel your pain!! My bf did the same thing, said, “I know what I’m getting you for Christmas!” and then the only hint he gives me is, “It’s something I know you want.”  Gahh!!  I know know know it won’t be a ring but I’m hoping anyways.  The only things I’ve said I want are:  Engagement ring, puppy, house.  I have a feeling it’s none of those, lol.

 

Pat on the back to you for being a good girl and not mentioning it at all!! And hey, whatever it is, you have an amazing present to look forward to on Christmas 🙂

 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee

@prshadow:

 

Sounds like they are already up and I can totally understand why they would be.  What does your gut tell you?  Try and push your anticipation out of the way for a moment to see what it says?

*shrugs*

 

I am with you on this feeling.  My FH came home from a office Christmas party a couple of weeks ago and had had a couple of drinks.  He let it slip that he was planning on proposing while we are down south for NYE/MY birthday.

 Now my hopes are up as well.  I really want a surprize proposal though so in a really strange way… I kind of hope he doesn’t propose there now … lol

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@prshadow: I have a trinity ring. It does indeed symbolize past, present & future. It’s three stones in a row (usually all the same size, although sometimes the middle one — present — is larger).

As for your present…try to think of something else! I know from experience that if you are constantly looking for the proposal, it’s less exciting. : /

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