Date night gifts for bridal shower?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
2181 posts
Buzzing bee

stokesto :  Ugh that’s so precious and involved. I don’t envy you.

If you’re doing evites it will be easy to include a short description under whatever ‘more info’ space there is. “Help keep the romance alive! Pleasee bring a gift that Theodora and Elias can use on a fun date.” Just do the jar thing at the shower itself and don’t try to dictate that people explain to her how to use a picnic blanket.

(you should also warn people to keep it PG if there’s young ones or grandmas attending–that theme would be taken as an opportunity for sex toys and lingerie by some of my friends).

Post # 3
47188 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

There are quite a few examples online for “date night shower invitations”.

You could enclose a business size card in the invitation and ask each guest to write out the date night idea and bring it separately to the shower so it can be placed in the jar. Or, they could bring it in the card envelope attached to their gift and the cards could be added to the jar at the shower.

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