(Closed) Date set, but still waiting? Huh?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Continue to wait! It WILL come! It sounds like he’s just trying to plan it… I know it feels like forever, and men don’t seem to understand the time it takes to plan 🙂 So, when I was “waiting,” I told my Fiance my minimum engagement length, and maximum… and we discussed our ideal approximate engagement length.  So, once we did that, I just waited and trusted him 🙂

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I don’t really have any advice :/ you’re right about needing time to plan and book vendors. I’d definitely sit down with him and hammer out a real timeline. Especially since you already booked a venue! I mean, if he keeps waiting, you might end up not having enough time to plan for September and then there goes your deposit. Have you mentioned that to him at all?

I’m sorry you’re in this awkward position. We have a date picked, too, so now I’m getting antsy about the proposal, as well. Feels like it’s taking forever!

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