(Closed) Daughters Father FI's bestman?

posted 5 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 2
Hostess
9084 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

View original reply
planningbee111211:  I actually think that, although it may be unusual, it is incredibly touching. i can’t think of anything nicer for your daughter to see her Dad be bestman to her new Stepdad. I think the fact that you are all such great friends and should be celebrated and is actually really amazing. I bet there are many many people out there that would envy your relationship with your ex, it sounds like you are both good people that have co-parented well and now your Fiance gets on with your daughters Dad, and likewise. To me that seems pretty rare, and quite frankly really cool.

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 10 months ago by  Mrs_Beer.
Post # 3
Member
9521 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

This shouldn’t come up, no need to go into the teenage past. With families being so mixed it is generally accepted. More importantly ask your daughter how she feels. These are all her parents and if anyone is “weird” about it it would be her. If she is accepting and supporting then go for it. If she is hesitant hear her out.

Post # 5
Member
1799 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

If it works, it works.  I think it would be lovely for your daughter but it is what your comfortable with.

Post # 6
Member
1346 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

If I went to a wedding and it was this exact situation I would think it was really cool!!

Post # 7
Member
1323 posts
Bumble bee

I think that’s lovely! 🙂

You’re forever linked by blood to this man and there’s no getting away from that; he’s one of your oldest friends and your FI’s best friend so I say go for it! 

The topic ‘Daughters Father FI's bestman?’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors