Post # 1
Day 3 was great, no slip ups. Great work out at the gym. Lots of positive things happening at work keeping my spirits alive and focused in those areas. Girls night tonight going to dinner with family and friends. He is going to spend this evening with his family. I have been doing so well, feeling stronger EVERY DAY! I know it is laughable but I usually don’t even make it 4 days without mentioning something about our future. I have been inconspicuously wrapped up in my world but not to a point of neglecting him. Just feeling more in control!
I am so thankful today to have this board to journal on. Thanks to you guys for “waiting it out with me” Wanted to start a list of my waiting bee buddies who are also on the Labor Day plan.
Cheers to us! 4 days down, 59 ish to go?
Post # 3
I love your updates, it makes me feel like I have a waiting partner!! My 5 year anniversary with the Boyfriend or Best Friend is in the middle of August so hopefully I won’t have to wait until Labor Day.. But who knows after 5 years what’s another 3 weeks, right? 🙂
Post # 4
I put together a bookcase yesterday and went to the movies with my guy and his buddy. Today I finished a bunch more unpacking, cleaned, doing some online shopping for more furniture for the new house. Tomorrow I’m going with my friend to help her find her wedding dress. Should be fun. 🙂
I’m telling you. After a while it will be so second nature to not bring up weddings that weeks and months will go by without you realizing you haven’t talked about it for a while. Don’t get me wrong. I think about it often enough. But for whatever reason whenever he’s around that part of my brain somehow just switches itself off. If it comes up at all, he’s the one that says something.
Good job! 🙂
Post # 5
Sounds like your making excellent progress – and soon it wont ‘feel’ like you have to do these things, they should start just happening automatically because its things you enjoy doing