(Closed) Day-Of Getting Ready – MENS ADDITION!

posted 4 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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45656 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Excited To Bee:  I think you mean “Men’s Edition” in the title of your post.

Do you intend to surprise his brother (BM), or wil you tell him what you have planned ahead of time?

I don’t think you are obligated to treat all the men. If you tell the brother ahead of time, he can tell his boyfriend what the plans are and tell him that he is welcome to just tag along, or get the full shave for himself on his own dime.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

While it would be nice for you to get the package for all of the men, I don’t think anyone will be surprised if it is just the dad and brothers. seems understandable enough.

Post # 6
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45656 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Excited To Bee:  You can still tell him at the rehearsal dinner. He has the rest of the evening to tell his boyfriend about the plans for the morning.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I’m doing the same thing with my FI and his groomsmen. I’m also sending along the fathers, and my brother whos not in the wedding, but thats my choice because theyre all “my” men. 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Just pay for the members of the wedding party; it’s not weird, nor will he expect to have his shave paid for.  He does not HAVE to get one either; he can shave himself that morning, just like the morning before, and the morning after 😛

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