Post # 1
My Maid/Matron of Honor (FI’s sister) and I are going to get our hair done together (at the same salon) the morning of the wedding. I assume that my mom and FI’s mom will need to get their hair done as well.
I’m going to invite my mom, but should I invite FI’s mom to get her hair done with us? Is it weird for FI’s mom to see me before the wedding ceremony or is that OK? I’m not sure what is done traditionally…
Post # 3
I don’t know about tradition, but I invited my Future Mother-In-Law to have her hair done with me and my BMs. I’m also paying for it because I know she and Future Father-In-Law are kind of tight on money.
Post # 4
I never heard of any tradition against seeing your Future Mother-In-Law. It’s only tradition not to see your FI!
Post # 5
I asked my Future Mother-In-Law if she would like to join us at the salon (similar situation, as FI’s sister is one of my BMs) and I think she was touched. She thinks it will be special to be with the rest of us girls.
Post # 6
I also asked Future Mother-In-Law if she wanted to come to the hair salon. She appreciated the thought, but declined, as Future Sister-In-Law is the Best Woman and they’ll be getting all done up elsewhere together.
Agree with PP’s, nothing wrong with Future Mother-In-Law getting ready with the rest of the girls!!