Dead bedroom, yet happy?

posted 6 months ago in Intimacy
Post # 31
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3836 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

Stop worrying about what “should” bother you. There are no rules for relationships despite what you might see in the media. If you are happy with how things are who is to say you’re “doing it wrong”?? Seriously. If it works for you – it’s ok. Some people are polyamorous, others won’t even be friends with the opposite sex. Some people don’t spend a night apart, others go on long trips alone. Heck, my parents got jobs in different countries and had a long distance marriage for a while – everyone is different!! YOU define your romantic relationship. Personally, I can kinda take or leave sex. I do enjoy it when I have it but I don’t  feel a “need” for it. I’m happy to have it with my husband but if I was with someone else who didn’t want it I’d be cool with that too. As I said, everyone is different, all that matters is that you and your partner’s type of “different” work together!

Post # 32
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549 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

If both of you happy then it doesn’t count as dead bedroom (at least that’s what I heard).

Post # 33
Member
961 posts
Busy bee

You need to have sex with the right person! 

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