(Closed) Dealing with 3 generations of his family – wedding and beyond

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
58 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I completely understand where you are coming from. My Fiance has six sisters all older than him. However, every time I see them they always ask me “Are you taking care of my brother” in that condescending tone.

You are very justified about your feelings. Your Fiance family should not make you feel bad about a decision that you and your Fiance have made together. I am happy that your Fiance is standing firm in his decisions, because you don’t know how many times I have read the same thing you are saying and the Fiance will change his mind and completely go with his family and not you.

Maybe going up for Thanksgiving dinner and spending the night might be best.

Good Luck!

Post # 4
612 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

It is great that your Fiance is standing firm with you!  I would call back the grandmother and ask her again what her answer is and if she says she hasn’t decided tell her that the RSVP deadline is here and that you will take her indecisiveness as a no and that you hope her the best.  As for Thanksgiving I agree with Mrs.PolarBear, you should go for diner and stay the night if asked.  Good luck and I think y’all are doing the right thing!!!

Post # 6
7408 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

His grandmother’s loss!

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