(Closed) Dealing with a girl that doesn’t order her dress?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think that you should do that! Worst comes to worst and she doesn’t want to be in the wedding you could sell it.

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

This is one of your bridesmaids?  It sounds like she’s not that interested in being in the wedding.  I don’t want to sound mean, but I may reconsider her role if she can’t even contact you.  I would understand if she does not currently have the money or cannot purchase it at this time, but the lack of communication would worry me, particularly if she is a close friend.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I think you should try to contact her one more time and just tell her that she has to order the dress now or she won’t be in the wedding party. Let her know that the dresses are on clearance and that it is now or never. If you have to leave messages stating this, then do so. It will be up to her. Make sure you give her a deadline.

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

I had somewhat of a similar issue.  I finally just ordered the size I assumed she would need and it worked out.  Alterations can do amazing things, so I wouldn’t be too worried.  Don’t let her dress issue ruin your excitement!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

hmmm I would call her again. Do you know if she has been on FB, like updating or anything. Hm if she is trying to avoid you i would just call her or text her and say if you dont want to be in it please let me know so I dont have to harrass you LOL

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