(Closed) Dealing with pressure from co-workers

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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2742 posts
Sugar bee

And this is where you nip it in the bud. Tell her you don’t know where she’s getting those things from but you don’t want her discussing you and your Fiance like that anymore. It’s all in your power to stop her.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Do what I did, I have a co-worker who would ask me every Monday when I came into work if I got engaged, and every Friday would ask if I’m getting engaged over the weekend.  So finally a couple weeks ago, she asked me if I was getting engaged over the weekend.  I said depends, are you getting a boyfriend over the weekend?

She hasn’t said anything to me since.  lol

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@bRooklynRocks: I agree completely. You need to be polite, but firm, and ask her to stop broadcasting these details to other people in the office.

You may also want to start distancing yourself from her, if you can. Once you actually do get engaged, she is going to ask you all the time about picking a date and all your wedding plans, so it’s just downhill from here!

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