(Closed) Dealing with the Negativity

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
735 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2009

Its really hard to get EVERYONE together for dress shopping, planning etc. I had the same feeling when I was planning too (now I’m a MOH!) . Just set a date that your mom (or whoever it the most important) can do and if they can come- great, if not you will try dresses several times. And when it comes to Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses- again set a date- if they can come they get to share opinions.. if they cant make it they don’t get to complain!

Post # 4
431 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Um I called 2 of my BMs “The Bitter Bridesmaids” –and get this they were my BFF and my sister! 

Post # 5
549 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think it’s pretty standard in most weddings… there is always someone!!!  I have 4 bridesmaids total, and 2 of them know NOTHING about the wedding (which is in 4 months) because they ignore me, or refuse to talk about it… and recently, my Maid/Matron of Honor got engaged and started planning her own wedding (which I’m super excited about!) but now she isn’t doing anything for my wedding, even when my mom calls her numerous times to try and talk about the shower, she just never calls back (3 months worth of phone calls!!!) unfortunately, it’s a tough thing!  Goodluck though.. go out, have fun and do what you need to!!

The topic ‘Dealing with the Negativity’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors