(Closed) DEAR boyfriend…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
331 posts
Helper bee

I do!

 

Dear Boyfriend:

Um, where are you? I’d like to meet you so I can get the show on the road. My mom brought up the sperm bank to me as a back up plan the other day. Seriously, just walk into my life sometime soon, please. Thanks!

 

PS – if you can be taller than me and be emotionally available, that’d be great too. Okay, bye! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
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331 posts
Helper bee

@Dell79:  & @Juliepants:    Hah, thanks. It’s really sad but true… she first brought up adoption but then knows how badly I want to experience pregnancy so she said she’d help me sift through donor applications. I think she just wants some more grandbabies. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 7
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1115 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I have one!

Dear Boyfriend,

I love that you think things through so clearly, but sometimes I really wish you weren’t so damn practical. I know an engagement ring is just a rock and a hunk of metal and shouldn’t cost hundreds or even thousands of dollars and that it doesn’t have any ‘real’ purpose but I want one anyways! Please get over it and buy me one already and propose so we can start planning a wedding and get married and spend the rest of our lives together! But generally just more onto the next step in our relationship at this point.

 

Post # 8
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1417 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Oh I love this……

 Dear boyfriend, 

 Everyone else around us is getting engaged, me I’m getting impatient. We have been dating 4 years and i know u said( tonight ) that maybe next year…well maybe doesn’t help me!! Stop buying stupid rims and stupid tires for your stupid truck and suck it up and put a damn ring on it!!

 

Oh that felt good!

Post # 10
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331 posts
Helper bee

@Dell79:  Oh, no… haha, no sperm bank for this girl. I was engaged until …lots of things happened and I called it off. I’ve been on several really good dates since then and a few really, really awkward dates …like, they wanted to wear my skin as a dress. I went out on a date a few weeks ago after this guy “bumped” into me at the grocery store and then halfway through dinner he started saying how his mom would need to meet me before we went any further. Um, I knew him for two weeks! As much as I want to be married and start a home life, it’s not going to be with any ol’ Joe.

I’m confident it’ll happen when it’s supposed to… just gets a bit frustrating at times. ๐Ÿ™‚

@FutureMrs.browneyes:  I know! My former guy said he wanted to save up money first to really get me what I wanted… and like a month later, he dropped $3,000+ on computer stuff. I was SO angry!

Post # 12
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1417 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Dell79:  I know he said it and i had to look away from him bc he prob would of burned from my death stare hahaha!

@Diet Coke:  

ugh hes making me crazy, 3000 on his truck, then he has the nerve to tell me he wants to lift it! (another 3000) ugh i turned to our dog and told her ” daddys an idiot” lol

Post # 13
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3968 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Dell79:  Oh man, true story. “I want it to be a surprise.” Well, it’s almost 5 years, and I’m not moving in without one, so put a ring on it already! He wasn’t planning to until 2013, and we had to have a serious conversation!

Post # 14
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1115 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@Diet Coke:  & @FutureMrs.browneyes:  I was super worried that my Boyfriend or Best Friend was doing this too! A few weeks ago he asked how I felt about renovating our bathroom (like major renovations, tearing everything out and replacing everything, even the walls, the only thing that’s staying is the toilet, and only because our toilet is only like 3 years old). The first thought in my head was “But what about an engagement ring? If we do bathroom renos, will you still be able to afford one? Or will I have to wait even longer?” I had an idea of how much my bf makes, but after that we actually sat down and he showed me his paycheques. And his investments. And his bank account. And his multiple savings accounts. And well basically all of his financial stuff. Oh and I shared mine, His took like an hour and a half. Mine took 2 minutes. I really need to start saving more money! Also, my Boyfriend or Best Friend has way more money than I thought he did. I knew he made a comfortable living, and that if I wanted to, if we ever have kids, assuming his salary keeps up with inflation and what not, I could comfortably be a Stay-At-Home Mom. But it’s more I could be a Stay-At-Home Mom in Louboutins. We had yet another talk today and we’ll be looking at rings this weekend! I guess what I’m saying is even if your partner is buying expensive things for himself, that doesn’t necessarily mean he isn’t still saving for the ring, or that him buying something will mean that he’ll need longer to save…

Post # 15
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1417 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@futuremrste:  Aw that’s good! I know how much my bf makes and he knows how much I make. We have had our money together for over 3 years, he was never a saver and I always have to have money in the bank. I just feel like him telling me ” maybe in the next year or maybe next year”means 2more years….ugh 

Post # 16
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130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Ooh this is fun…

Dear Boyfriend or Best Friend

After 8 year of unsubtle hints you finally get the picture, have saved up the cash and have spoken to the jeweller. Get the darn ring made already –  my finger feels lonley and I’m getting cranky!

: )

Kthxby

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