(Closed) DEAR boyfriend…

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 46
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9806 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@elysion:  your rabbit peed on the couch in anger? lol awesome

Post # 48
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196 posts
Blushing bee

Dear SO,

After you bringing up the whole marriage thing 2 years ago, it’s getting pretty old waiting. I love you, but it makes me feel that you don’t “really” love me when you talk about it but don’t do it.

I know you want to ask for my parents blessing. That’s nice, but if you want to have that moment, you need to buck up and do it. They like you. srsly.

Love,

aquawater

Post # 49
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808 posts
Busy bee

dear boyfriend,

Do you know how hard it was to stop myself from proposing to you on leap day? I hope we’re at least engaged before the next one. You have been warned lol.

Post # 50
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I got one ladies: 

Dear Fiance, 

 

After waiting four years for you to propose, are you really so shocked that we are getting married after only six months from the day you proposed.  If you would have proposed a few years back, we could have taken our time to plan.  

 

Sincerely, 

Your future wife

Post # 51
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359 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Ladies, love the posts. But I have some advice. Do Not wait on him, take matters into your own hands. I am the girl who told my boyfriend after 8 years (we started dating at 15 years old) we were getting married and that was the end of the matter. We then got engagement rings and started planning. Guys these days are lazy and most do not feel getting married is necessary because they live like they are married already. Such as living, sleeping, having kids with the Girlfriend, without being legally bound to her. They don’t feel the need to have the big day with the fancy dress and all the hooplah a wedding entails and I think most of them are worried about being legally married. In the old days people were getting married sooner and more often because if they wanted to live/sleep together that was the only option none of that happened before marriage and now that it is and commonly so it makes it easier for the guys not to have to put a ring on it. I think we have made it all to easy on them to be lazier about it. So since times have drastically changed I think it is all too appropriate for the woman to be able to propose as well. Time to start taking the reins!!!

Post # 52
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I want to play! But I am engaged… hope thats ok!

Fiance, after 6 years of dating and 5.5 of living together you finally asked me to marry you. I am thrilled. It truly was the best day of my life. Thank you, so much. But please stop thinking that was all the work you had to do! Just because we are engaged does not mean our sex life can grind to a halt and it does not mean that we dont have to talk anymore… we are not even married yet FFS! And please, take SOME interest in the wedding. I know you think its a waste of money, but please, show some enthusiasm!

P.S. No, you cant rock up on the day in shorts and a shirt. Its our fvcking wedding day you idiot!.. Love you ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 53
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Bears-bub:  I love it!!!  

My fiance was surpised that we are not having a long engagement after four years and buying our house.  We are in our mid thirties, I asked him if he wants a baby.  He said yes, so then we need to marry soon.  lol I am no spring chicken.  

Post # 54
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2013
Post # 55
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Dear fiance,

Thank you for taking the leap after 9 years. I was sick and tired of calling you my “boyfriend” and everyone asking me, “When is he going to give you the ring?!”. If you would have made me wait until the 10 year mark, I would have died of humiliation! Sure, it took us {and by us, I mean you} a while {and by a while, I mean forever}, but the time has come, and I couldn’t be more excited. 

Sincerely,

Your future wife <3

{here’s my proposal story if any of you are interested ๐Ÿ™‚ http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/disneyland-wedding-proposals }

Bee’s, hang in there! Sometimes its worth the wait when you know that what you have together is real. 

Post # 56
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

sylvia.riggle : BOOOOOOOO!!!!! We have the rest of the world to judge us. Can’t girls just have a little fun having a meltdown. 

Dear Boyfriend: 

I love you so very much. However you know you are driving me insane, I think you are actually getting pleasure from it. I know that you put up with me watching Four Weddings CONSTANTLY, but one more episode of Top Gun and I may bite your ear off (and not in the cute way penny does). So seriously, stop hinting and playing and procrastinating and whatever the hell it is you like to do to my brain. AND JUST POP THE DAMN QUESTION.

Sincercly,

Your Loving Psycho Girlfriend.

Also, it’s your turn to do the dishes ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 58
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226 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Dear Boyfriend…

All your friends are getting engaged… last night your 30 year-old married friend (who is expecting a child) told you not to wait much longer to get married… So why aren’t you realizing 30 is old enough to get engaged/get married? You’re not as young as you think… and our biological clocks will soon start ticking! Please put a ring on it!

Love,

your wonderful Girlfriend

Post # 59
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2491 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m engaged, but LOVED reading this thread! Great way to go to work laughing ๐Ÿ™‚

 

PS. To Bears-bub , my Fiance STILL is convinced that wearing a white or baby-blue tuxedo to the wedding would be funny. I feel your pain!

Post # 60
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466 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@takemyhand:  Oh ceilingcat, save us from these children in men’s clothing!

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