(Closed) Dear “broke” friend….

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I’d dump that “friend.” But not before I asked him/her to pony up my cash.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You go girl!  I can’t stand it when people do that kind of stuff.  Are you going to say anything to your friend?

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Cry

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

ditto on what Statutory Grape said!  though, more the  likely, the money will NEVER be seen again…. 

facebook can be great, can’t it?

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

people are so dumb about facebook… it has led to the end of many relationships and friendships. It’s like, HELLO I CAN SEE EVERYTHING YOU’RE WRITING STUPID!

If people didn’t feel the need to update their status every 5 seconds with what they are doing it probably wouldn’t be so prevalent.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@MrsJKH2be: Does she know that if she doesn’t get you the money, there will be consequences?

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

sooooo annoying.  i’m sorry you have to put up with this.  

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@MrsJKH2be: No offense, but she sounds like a flaky asshole, so would it be such a loss? Tell her point blank–you NEED to give me the money by such and such a date. I’m not sure what consequences you’d want to use, but she needs to know that her behavior is unacceptable.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

That would make me so mad!

I hate having to borrow money from friends (I never ever carry cash) But I always pay them back ASAP i cant handel oweing anyone money, it stresses me out! I dont understand how someone could owe youn money and feel its ok to do all thoes things

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

OH MY GOSH! I am dealing with something quite similar. I have a friend from preschool, like a sister, and she is complaining BIG time about the price of the bridesmaids dress while going out and drinking a TON almost every weekend. Its so frustrating. 

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Sorry, how frustrating! I’m lucky that none of my friends are like that…

One of my girlfriends was a BM in a wedding with another Bridesmaid or Best Man who was apparently “broke”.  She threw a huge hotel party for the bride, complete with a $300 bridal shower gift from EVERYONE… uh then stiffed the other bridesmaids for the cost!! Note, there were only 3 bridesmaids!!!

Every time they had a planning meeting, or ANYTHING, or went to any event, THE GIRL WOULD NOT PAY.  Crazy.  She would say things like “I’m hungry lets eat” and then they’d go out and the girl kept saying how everyone else made a lot of money and could afford it because they made more than her so they should pay, or she said “you got this one, right?” I’m surprised my friend didn’t object, but she’s too nice for her own good.

Oh, but this girl bought a new car and owns a timeshare in Vegas and flies out there every month. Hmmmmmmmm.

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