Post # 1
Dear Future Mother-In-Law.
I really am sorry that your fmaily decided not to come your son’s wedding. That said, I cannot mail B list invites until we get enough regrets. I have explained this to you, your son has explained this to you, and I explained it to you again. I understand that you feel as if you can do whatever you want however we have limited space in the reception venue. That is why I almost ripped your head off today at my shower when you bullied my mother into letting you get these invites.
And yes, as you said: it is your fault for opeing your big mouth and inviting people by word of mouth instead of sticking by your fing list!
Post # 3
im sooo sorry for your situation… hope you can resolve it… good luck
Post # 4
oh dear… maybe you should actually send her this letter. You might feel better.
Post # 5
LOL girl you KNOW I feel ya & love this 🙂
I hate FMIL’s that are BULLYS! Don’t they realize it’s not their wedding?!
Post # 6
well its like WTF beee-ach — we have explained this to you. just bc you have alienated your own family, that is small to begin with, does not mean you can get more invites. AND dont be hatin’ bc my ginormo family adores me and you son and woulnt miss it for the world! your guilt trips dont work on me!
Post # 7
Grrr I hate guilt trips like this. It’s so crappy that she tried to cause shit at your shower. It’s YOUR day and should be about YOU.
Post # 8
Did you give her any physical paper invitations yet?? I wouldn’t. I would hold onto those like GOLD! If she wants invites, she will HAVE to go through YOU AND YOUR Fiance (which it sounds like you have told her before). I’d be pissed too!! Call you mom and tell her you are NOT giving her your B-list invites until you’ve received regrets!! That’s just BS!
Post # 9
seriously – send the letter – i would – thats just wrong! lol
you. go. girl.
Post # 10
@mighty: I know right! Its total crap that she feels she can by pass us! On saturday she asked again, and again and again. I kept telling her no, sorry you have to wait. Well my mom is much to nice and she took advantage of it. I am over this woman. grr
Post # 11
I’m so sorry for your situation, it is really aggrivating when people don’t quite understand that there are indeed capacity limits.
Post # 12
I completely understand! I just posted about my latest guest list fiasco with my Future Mother-In-Law. My Future Mother-In-Law has decided she’s just going to send her own invitations. I’m so sorry this is happening!
Post # 14
Wow! Sorry to hear about your situation! How many guests are you having at the wedding?