(Closed) Dear GM: I’m over your drama. Go kick rocks.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I have one of those slackers myself!  I just decided not to talk about him anymore. I told the Fiance that as long as on the day of our wedding he’s dressed correctly he can be in it.  I really had to commit to this though at first I was still asking questions and just stopped in order not to blame my Fiance for his friends laziness.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I can’t stand it when people purposly wait until the last minute to do things. I just kicked someone out for doing this (actually my mama did it for me). She told her that since she had not ordered she took it that should would no longer be in the wedding and that we understood. Still no response from her, but a good friend volunteered to step in for her. So it all worked out.

Post # 5
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5823 posts
Bee Keeper

That’s awesome.  Glad you found a way to make them (and yourself!) laugh!  I agree with you, he’s a tool.

Post # 7
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606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think you did the right thing!  Obviously you can’t control this situation and you shouldn’t let it stress you out!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

High five to you!  He sounds like a real winner…

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

I also had this problem.  Something about getting measured out of the US became an issue for one of our Groomsmen who is student teaching in Korea.  Turns out, I let Fiance handle it and it worked out find, I told him either he gets measured before the due date, or he isn’t in the wedding.  That was the only thing I had to say and then I left it up to Fiance (responsible adult) to take care of.  Let it go to the man you love and let the pieces fall where they may.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@CupcakeSprinkles:  I feel your pain.  I swear, getting all the guys to get fitted for their tuxes was like pulling teeth.  Next to the guest list, it was probably the hardest part of my wedding planning!  Almost every single one of them waited until the last week to get fitted.  They’ll get it done – it’s just frustrating to have to wait on other people, isn’t it?!?!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Is he having money issues or just being a jerk?

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Geeeeeeeeeez. That totally blows chunks. Honestly, I think you did the right thing by telling your Fiance it’s his issue now. Seriously, you’ve done your part.

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