(Closed) Dear SO

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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2893 posts
Sugar bee

🙁 There a special holiday or non-holiday occassion you think he’s waiting for? Has he said why he’s waiting? Sorry you’re having a bad day.

Post # 5
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1278 posts
Bumble bee

Maybe he is just waiting for the perfect time?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

@happy2bee: That’s the worst. I don’t know what’d I’d do if SO had the ring and was waiting for some undetermined/undisclosed future date. Waiting is hard enough when he has the ring; if you feel things b/w you are different, that has to be tough. Sounds like it’s time for a talk and maybe some reassureance from you? B/c to be honest if I was in a guy’s shoes and things didn’t feel kosher, that would make it all the more difficult to pop the question, you know? Consider having a talk with him, not about engagement but about things b/w you two. Find out what’s on his mind. Let us know how it goes!

Post # 7
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2893 posts
Sugar bee

@happy2bee: Is there a chance that it’s not so much his feelings have changed but rather you’re stressed about the fact that he hasn’t done anything yet? Maybe it’s just an off month? Is there anything in particular that makes you feel his feelings have changed?

Post # 8
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1737 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Maybe he’s just nervous and trying to muster the courage to pop the question. I mean, it is a pretty life-changing decision. If I was a guy I’d probably sit on the ring for months and drive my partner nuts, too. Some people just need time to think…and think…and think…and reassure themselves (a few thousand times) that yes, this is what they want.

Post # 10
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1297 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@happy2bee: +1 I would like to send that to my SO too! 🙂

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I know for the fact why SO hasn’t proposed to me – he said he is waiting for this elusive “perfect timing”, and also the courage to ask me (even though he know 99% I will say yes!!) Maybe this is true for you?

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