(Closed) Dear Wedding: I’m so over you.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1235 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@NJmeetsBX: Haha. Whenever someone asks me I just tell them the minimum “its good”. I honestly dont want to talk about my wedding, especially since I havent done anything regarding it in 2 months!

Post # 5
5183 posts
Bee Keeper

OMG, yes, same here! I will just be copying and pasting that same email to my wedding. It doesn’t even deserve originality on my party. 

Post # 6
6473 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

Oh I remember that feeling – at least when it’s all over, you can look back at the relationship and go… ‘ok, so you were KIND of worth the drama!’ 😉

Post # 7
1240 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

This girl came into my work the other day, and she had JUST gotten married (like a week ago) and I told her I was, and she said, I’m sorry, I’ll pray for you. I was like, FINALLY SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS ME! 

Fiance thinks its dresses and shoes and cupcakes and flowers. NO, I NEED YOU TO DO YOUR HALF NOW.


EDIT: And my dad lives in NC. And his older daughter isn’t getting married, and so I know this is his only chance but damnit. I don’t want to talk about it all the flipping time!!

Post # 10
5183 posts
Bee Keeper

@NJmeetsBX: I thought my Fiance was the only one!!!!!!!! I started sending him to-do lists through email with due dates lol. He has been doing fairly well since then.

Post # 11
2580 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I feel the same way! We’ve got two more weeks. I loved planning initially, but now I’m sick of it consuming every second and every dollar I have available. I think it will be worth it, but I’m ready to be done stressing over it.

Post # 12
1729 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

i TOTALLLLLY feel you.. we are on a budget since hes recovering… and ive been doing the mega searches for sales ,coupons and deals..besides a TON of DIYs

running to any bridal show in driving distance to chit chat with vendors and get the best prices..

I feel like i need a VACAY from the wedding! Ive been on a xmas break from it but the things lurk in my mind when im trying to sleep on what else needs to be done

I do all the back & leg work then go to him for his approval or dissapproval – UGH!

he works long hours and has helped but like @NJmeetsBX…nothing compared to what ive done!

Post # 13
609 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@NJmeetsBX: LOL! The good thing is, its almost over Wink

Post # 14
5093 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

@NJmeetsBX:  SO TRUE.  It took Fiance EIGHT MONTHS to ask his cousin if her son could be our ring bearer.  EIGHT MONTHS!!!

Post # 15
3618 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

LOL!!! People always regret asking me how the planning is going. I go off on a not as witty rant similar to yours. My current outburst of choice: I WANT MY DINNING ROOM BACK!!! (the table is filled with DIY projects, the floor is covered with boxes of favors, finished diy projects, bridal party gifts, wedding decor, you name it it’s on my floor!)

Post # 16
3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I was so excited to be married, but honestly, I hated planning my wedding.

Deciding on menus, decor, and details was NOT fun to me.

The only thing I enjoyed choosing was my dress and the BMs’ dresses- lol!

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