(Closed) Deceased Mother, Calling all Brides for Advice!

posted 5 years ago in Accessories
Post # 3
Member
133 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

You can do whatever you like on your wedding day, especially if it is meaningful and important to you! Gold jewelery will be just fine, especially with a pearl, and I think if you didn’t wear it you would regret it later 🙂

Post # 4
Member
1141 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Yes of course you can wear gold. It will go even better if it also had pearls as pp said. I’m So sorry your mom is not here to plan with you.

Post # 5
Member
3081 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m so sorry about your struggles without your mom. First, gorgeous dress. Second I do think you can (and should!) wear the necklace. With the pearl it will go even more, and because it sounds so simple, it certainly wouldn’t clash or be tacky in any way. I say keep the remainder of your jewelry simple as well. 

If you can post a picture of the necklace, too, that might help us visualize even more. 

Good luck with your planning, and please don’t hesitate to continue reaching out to the bees on questions about planning or vents about doing this without your mom. There are sure to be girls who have been in similar situations who can empathize and give great advice. 

Post # 6
Member
3697 posts
Sugar bee

It is never tacky to make such a sweet gesture to honor a deceased family member. Wear it proudly!

Post # 7
Hostess
23790 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh honey, your mom is beaming down on you!  Your dress is stunning, and that necklace (and gold jewelry to boot) is going to look so gorgeous with your dress!  All the best to you.

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