(Closed) December 2011 – What’s left on your to-do list!?

posted 7 years ago in December 2011
Post # 3
5543 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2011

We got a bunch done just recently. I addressed a bunch of invites today, we got our wedding bands and bought FIs pants for the suit jacket he already had. I finished the primary ceremony plan and have music for it.

Still to do:



Rehersal Dinner Plans

Hotel Block

Ceremony Program

Find a baker for our cutting cake (we have cupcakes but want to use this heirloom topper)

Wedding Night hotel (We don’t leave on our honeymoon for 2 days)

Lots of little DIY stuff, I’m engraving “toasting mugs” since we are having a hot choc bar, I need to make some different little signs for the reception, we are having a table of wedding photos from our family

I really can see the light at the end of the tunnel with 95 days to go!

Post # 4
1061 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Mail invites (week of Oct. 3)
Ceremony programs (in progress)
Order chair covers
Cut sashes and sew table runners
Finish up chair roses (in progress)
Escort cards (Waiting for RSVP’s to finish, but partially complete)
Cut dogwood branches for centerpieces (November)
Rehersal dinner invites

My bachelorette and showers are coming up in November, so those will be busy weekends and I will have thank you cards to write!

Post # 5
2580 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I was freaking out for awhile but I feel like I’m chipping away at things! We got our photo guestbook from Shutterfly, my ring, ordered the ketubah, booked the wedding night hotel, and last night I ordered programs, menus, rehearsal dinner invites, and some other paper goods from Vistaprint. Trying to take it one step at a time…

Still on my list:

  • Confirm flower order
  • Cake design
  • Get GMs to get measured for their tuxes
  • Send invitations (this weekend!)
  • Send rehearsal dinner invitations
  • Find dress for rehearsal dinner/AHR
  • FI’s ring
  • Marriage License
  • Escort Cards
  • Cardbox
  • Few miscellaneous centerpiece supplies
  • Work with caterer on alcohol order
  • Final Fitting
  • Confirm timelines with venue, DOC, catering manager, and band

Looking at it, what’s left is pretty minor…now just praying we get a good balance of RSVPs so we don’t go way over budget! Nervous about getting those invites in the mail…that makes it so real!

Post # 6
3618 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Even though I feel like we cross something off every week, this list is never ending! Still on the list:

-Groomsmen and groom’s suit



-Rehearsal dinner invitations

-Morning after brunch invitaitons

-Get my dresses altered (I’m dreading this…)

-Escort cards

-Table numbers

-Kids craft table/activity books

and last but most importantly

-Make my parents understand that it’s NOT OKAY to invite or UNINVITE anyone and everyone they please to either: the wedding or rehearsal dinner.

-Marriage license

Post # 7
1249 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Still to do…

  • Finish veil
  • Finish bunting
  • Finish guest book
  • card box
  • Finish decorations
  • Address and send out invitations

And then the week before the wedding

  • Do flowers
  • Make over 1,000 cookies
  • make 5 cakes
  • make 150 cupcakes
  • make 100 brownies

Plus look for an apartment and new car.  So busy!

Post # 8
13 posts
  • Wedding: December 2011

Here’s my List

  • Send out invites (Oct 3rd, exactly a month before the RSVP date Nov 3rd!)
  • Complete the DVD photo montage that will be playing during the cocktail hour/reception
  • Programs!! I have no idea where to start with these
  • Address and mail the rehersal dinner invites and post wedding brunch invites (mailing on Nov 3rd)
  • Place cards and ribbon board for place cards
  • seating chart
  • Trial for hair and make-up
  • DIY jones sodas and water bottles
  • Complete out town bags
  • Find a ceremony musician!! <– most worried about this one and the programs

I love seeing everyone else’s lists; its nice to know there are other ladies out there doing the same things as I am!

Post # 9
385 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

We just got the groom’s tie and shoes this past weekend.  Took his pants in to be hemmed.  Tomorrow night I am taking my son (22) to get his suit and dress shoes.  He says he wants to pick out his tie – Be afraid, be very afraid … he said he is thinking penguins, PENGUINS!!!  We are having a very small wedding so I think it will actaully be cute to look back on this when he is like 40.

Still need to get license /  confirm music /  get nail appointment / take the cake topper to the venue /  give final count to venue /  and a cuple of small DIY things. 

I have some I DO letters to spray paint black for the photographer to use as props for wedding pic and I made the cutest sign and I have all the painting done I have to attache it to the post to stick in the ground.

I am in good shape but again I having a very small wedding.

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