December infertility board

posted 1 year ago in TTC
Post # 421
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Bumble bee

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@piscesinsc:  Ugh, I know that feeling of dread all too well. I think the thyroid test could be a very logical explanatiom though. Plus they might be short staffed today because of the holiday! Don’t lose hope. 

Post # 423
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

My HCG has dropped to 499. I haven’t bled at all so who knows what’s going on but I’m pretty sure it means that this pregnancy won’t come to fruition. I am so over this and don’t know where to go from here. We have no more embryos so we will be starting from scratch in 2021. 

Post # 424
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

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@piscesinsc:  Ohhh no, bee I’m so sorry to hear this ❤ 

Post # 427
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Bumble bee

@piscesinsc:  I am so sorry bee 🙁. This is just unfair.  Thinking of you and sending virtual hugs ❤️

Post # 428
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2019

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@piscesinsc:  ooh bee, I’m so sorry. Sending you love and hugs, take care ❤️

Post # 429
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

 

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@piscesinsc:  oh bee my heart just dropped reading your post. I am so sorry 😔 I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better. The feeling of having to start all over again really sucks and I’ve been there. Take some time to regroup and process. Wishing you strength and hope going forward into the new year. 

Post # 430
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Thanks everyone. I’m not even sad about losing this one since I never got attached to it. But the thought of doing more treatment just exhausts me. I feel like we have to move forward since time isn’t on our side but I really think there’s something wrong with me since I’ve now miscarried two normal embryos. I think I’m going to put a timeframe on how much more we will do and then move on and give up having kids altogether. It may just not be in the cards for us.

Post # 431
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Busy bee

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@piscesinsc:  this is a tough time, don’t make any decisions right now. Miscarriages happen, they happen with normals and abnormals. These things can just happen, there doesn’t have to be anything wrong with anyone. Hugs Bee!

Post # 432
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

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@piscesinsc:  yea I agree with @jen9999, sometimes stuff like this just happens and there’s no reason for it, although we want there to be so we can fix it. Try not to think too far ahead right now even though it’s hard. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gone down a dark road of hopelessness in my mind. This process is so hard and sometimes we don’t want to be strong. Just try to take it easy over the next few days/weeks and then you can decide which direction to go in. 

Post # 433
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I don’t know who else needs to hear this but just thought I would put this up there…

I got a pregnancy announcement from my husbands cousin and his girlfriend last night and it completely threw us off and honestly ruined our night. It started off so great and after this was announcement we just couldn’t be in a good mood. Infertility gives you so many unwanted feelings and emotions and the bitterness I felt really stunned me. There is a part of me that feels happy for them and this other part Of me that feels so angry, isolated and sad. I wish I could just feel happiness for them and I just can’t, and I hate that it is like this. I am a normally positive person but this just really destroyed me and I didn’t expect it to. Just feels like we’re left behind again. I can’t talk about it with my husband. He said my lukewarm reaction to their happy news was “so mean” and that I wasn’t “happy enough for her”. That really hurt and then he left to go to work today even though he’s technically off, said he needed to finish working on a car for his boss, said there’s no reason to be here today in misery. 
so I texted my dad and mom because I needed to rant and I just got the best response from my dad because he always knows the right this to say. Just sharing in case someone else needs to hear his good advice. It just put me in a better direction for the day. 

Post # 434
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

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@Cheekie0077:  I’m sorry you had to deal with that announcement. I can’t handle pregnancy announcements and I had to unfollow everyone with a baby on Facebook. I’m glad your dad was able to give you some good advice.

Post # 435
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Bumble bee

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@Cheekie0077:  I’m sorry that your nye was ruined by the pregnancy announcement 🙁. They are always tough to deal with, especially when they are unexpected or the couple wasn’t even trying.  I’m glad that your parents were able to give good advice.

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