(Closed) Decided to start TTC!

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 2
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1175 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

First of all, congratulations! Starting to ttc is so exciting! I hope your time here on the ttc board is short! 

My advice would be to start taking a prenatal right away. Most doctors will recommend starting on one before ttc in order to build up your body’s supply of all the important nutrients! 

I would also advise you to get any medical/dental work that you need done out of the way as soon as possible to avoid having to do that during pregnancy! 

Get to know your body and its cycle! I highly highly recommend reading the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Its very imformative! 

Im sure theres more advice other bees will cover, those are just the ones that popped into my head first. Try to enjoy the process as much as possible, it’s easier said than done but still try! haha best of luck!! 

Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Congrats!! I guess I never realized how many emotions there are when you start TTC. Part of this is that I was way too overly obssessed about everything our first month trying. Apparently that did work because I ended up pregnant, but sadly I miscarried at 5 1/2 weeks. Miscarriages are scary, but unfortunately it’s part of the TTC process. MANY people have miscarriages (I have 3 personal friends who have but who have then went on to get pregnant shortly after that!). You can’t let fear run your life. I’ve accepted that it was nothing that I did or didn’t do. It was nature’s way of saying that there wasn’t something 100% right (even though it was hard to deal with for a while). However, I have to say that DH and I are much more closer now after we experienced that. I did everything right (ate right, got enough sleep, didn’t stress, etc. and still happened to me). Now this month I’m much more laid back about everything. 

I do recommend that you get on a prenatel though. I take the First Response gummies with DHA. I’ve tried 3 different brands (One-A-Day, Rainbow Lit and some prescription one) that made me so sick!! I’m glad that I got that figured out before we actually started trying.

I started to chart and use OPK’s. Not everyone does this when they first start to try, but it was great for me to know about my cycle. Apparently I ovulate much later than the normal 14 days, so the other months when we weren’t really trying I believe that I totally missed that. It’s best to have sex 3-4 days before you ovulate so that the spermies are waiting for the egg! 

If you need to lube, I highly suggest Pre-Seed. It’s sperm friendly and helps sperm live longer I believe. Normal lubes kill sperm. I honestly think this helped me get pregnant the first month that we used it. You’re supposed to use it internally, but I just used it externally like a regular lube.

I did the whole put my hips up on 2 pillows for 30 minutes after sex. Maybe that helps and maybe it doesn’t…just makes me feel better lol

Don’t spend tons of money on pregnant tests. The best ones are from Walmart for 88cents or the dollar store! πŸ™‚ You can also buy cheap ones off from Amazon, but I didn’t really like those.

Good luck!! πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

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mrssjwilliams:  ahhhh I love the name christopher! That’s my hubbys name but he doesnt want to name our future kid that lol. 

I have also heard that people can be most fertile immediately after stopping birth control. Im not sure why. I can’t give any first hand experience, but I’m sure other bees can! 

We haven’t told a single person we are ttc! I think the only person I’d want to tell is my sister, but so far we’ve kept quiet. We’re definitely not telling our parents since my mother cant keep a secret to save her life lol

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