(Closed) Deciding on a Stand-In

posted 8 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Which Ring Should I Wear?
    Chastity Ring : (18 votes)
    58 %
    Substitute Ring (suggestions?) : (13 votes)
    42 %
    Other? : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    You already have the chastity ring, mind as well wear that.  By The Way, sounds like a fun summer!

    Post # 4
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Agreed–you might as well wear the chastity ring, since you already have it. What type of stone is that? It’s so pretty!

    Post # 7
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I voted chastity ring since you already have it, but I’ve changed my mind and would go with buying a cheap substitute. You’ve had the chastity ring since you were 16, and I assume there is some sentimental attachment. Since the whole point is not wanting to ruin/lose/have it stolen, I don’t know that you’d want to use that ring, either. I would just buy something simple, fake, and cheap as a placeholder.

    Post # 8
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    301 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @Amaryllis: I agree!  I think there’s probably some sentimental attachment and if you lost or ruined it, it would be devastating.  I would get a cheap replacement and then, if you lose it or something, it won’t be as much of a loss.

    Post # 9
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    Ask yourself how you would feel if the chastity ring were stolen..  if you wouldn’t be too bothered, wear it.  Otherwise buy a cheap substitute.  Have a great time!

    Post # 10
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    841 posts
    Busy bee

    I agree with the other posters. Because of its sentimental value, I would go with a very cheap substitute.

    Post # 11
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    336 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Maybe you could buy an inexpensive band style ring. That way you don’t have to worry about breaking any stones and being left with no ring to wear.

    I like this one (only $26):http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/14k-Gold-over-Silver-Filigree-Ring/3381049/product.html

    14k Gold over Silver Filigree Ring

    Tanzanite is pretty soft, I’d be worried about hurting such a special ring.

    PS. Your ring is one of the ones I remember specifically because it so SO unbelievably beautiful. I totally agree with your choice not to risk that bad boy!

    Post # 12
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I voted for a substitute.  Your chastity ring is obviously very important to you as well and you wouldn’t want to ruin it either.  Especially if it’s tanzanite, it could get damaged as I have heard it’s a fairly soft stone.  I would get a plain band, or a metal band in a design of some sort. Then you don’t have to worry!

    Post # 13
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I also vote for a substitute.  I had a stand in for travels out of the country – but got a CZ replica.  In hindsight I should have just worn a plain band.

    Post # 14
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Wear something that has little meaning. Seriously – as a field biologist that worked in remote parts of the world, I would say only bring with you jewelry that you don’t mind destroying/losing. The sentimentality of the chastity ring is just setting yourself up for big disappointment. I would really just get a plain band with no stone or prongs – it’ll stay cleaner, and have less meaning if lost or super scratched.

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