(Closed) Decisions decisions…

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1555 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I’m similar to you in that I like making decisions fast. I think the only thing you can do is just tell her that you’ve already done it. For instance, if she offers to help with something, just say “thanks so much mom, but I’ve already taken care of it.” I find that emphasizing to people how much I actually enjoy doing wedding tasks helps. When they realize that I really don’t mind doing it myself, they feel less pressure to be helpful.

I know you don’t want to hurt her feelings, but it sounds like she is hurting the process more than she is helping, which I’m sure she wouldn’t want if she realized that. 

Good luck! 

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