- 4 years ago
- Wedding: August 2014
I just want things to be done. I am completely impatient. I do not want to wait around picking between this or that.
You can tell because I bought my dress on my first shopping trip and booked almost all of my vendors after only meeting one vendor. I only looked for a different MUA when the meeting with the first person didn’t go so great. Believe me, I did my research, read reviews, etc. before meeting, but if the meeting went well and people rave about the person, why keep looking? (I have a pretty busy schedule working 3/4 time and being a grad student, so not a lot of time for this stuff)
And I just want to be done! My mom so sweetly keeps offering to help out with things but it just stresses me out more because we get off of my time table. We have been working on the centerpieces for like 3 months. She is very sweet, don’t get me wrong, but I want it off of my mind! I need to stop combing through website after website to see which candles are the cheapest etc. and just order something. And she says she’ll go to Michael’s over a month ago and then she doesn’t (which is fine, I just wish she wouldn’t offer if she isn’t going to do it). She is really busy too and she is a procrastinator, so I am getting frustrated planning our wedding with her. I don’t want to leave her out unnecessarily, but it’s stressing me out. I know my mom and she is going to be that way up to the day of. (She’s perpetually late for everything)
Sorry, guess I just needed to vent. With so many decisions to be made, I can’t handle taking a lot of time to make them. I just like to get things done and over with.