- 9 years ago
- Wedding: April 2009
I’m in an ethical dilemma…and need help!
Back in June, I decided to go with Decorator A who is resourceful, frugal and really sweet. But, since she wasn’t full of great ideas; I decided to shop around- even though I made a soft commitment.
I got in ‘serious’ talks with Decorator B, as I thought they understood me better. However, my FH really didn’t like them at all and his gut was saying no. Regardless, I continued to meet with them. About a month ago, I sent them a messaging saying that I don’t think there is a fit…and contact Decorator A again. I didn’t here back from Decorator A till now (she was on vacay for the holidays)….
And since, I never heard from Decorator A, I got swayed back into Decorator B. I have not given a deposit to anyone, just soft commitments and my FH still doesn’t like Decorator B. Although I hate to admit it, he is usually always right….
Well now that Decorator A is back in the picture, I want to meet with her and go over my new set ideas and see what she quotes me and then most likely go with her.
….But…..how do I tell Decorator B?!?!?! I just feel so wrong in doing so, but they really haven’t been professional or up to my expectations….