(Closed) defriended!!

posted 9 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 18
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661 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

My twin sister actually defriended me.  She said I was causing drama when it was actually HER causing the drama!  I was ignoring it all!  lol

Post # 19
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

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@mrs.jk:

That IS weird! Since you guys actually interact outside of FB.

Oh well.

Post # 21
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454 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I got defriended by a someone I did consider a friend (albeit someone who I didn’t see very often anymore, but we used to be best friends).  That was her way of ending the friendship with me entirely.  I thought it was pretty weird and childish. 

However, because our friendship had petered out in the previous months I had been debating whether or not to invite her to the wedding.  After the defriending it made THAT decision a whole lot easier! LOL

Post # 22
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389 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I have been defriended and I have defriended many people, mainly those I don’t communicate with at all and the people I was never friends with in real life, like assholes from high school and whatnot.  If one of my close friends or family members defriended me I would be hurt, but it doesn’t bother me if say, my ex-boyfriend from high school who I only dated for three months in 1997 removed me from his friends list..

Post # 23
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Honey bee

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@mrs.jk: I wouldnt take it personally. I de-friend people all the time. If I dont de-friend them, I just block them from everything. It creeps me out that people I hardly talk to would know things about my life from reading my facebook.

Ive actually had people ask me in person why they can’t see my wall, or my pictures or whatever. Ugh, facebook!

Post # 24
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

I do sporadic spring cleanings of my friends list all the time. I definitely don’t keep people around just to up the number of “friends” I have. Basically, if someone’s added me and then not said a word to me, they’re on the chopping block. I get all these random friend requests from people I haven’t seen in over a decade, and who never talked to me much in the first place. What the heck is the point?

That does seem weird though that you just talked to her recently and she defriended you.

Post # 25
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

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@JaneyD: Lol…that had to have been an awkward email!  How do you tell someone you’re defriending them?  Did he give a reason?

Post # 26
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3942 posts
Honey bee

Oh, and I have de-friended family! haha. My aunts, uncles, and a few cousins. I never see them but they were actually keeping tabs on me via facebook and then telling my grandmother things that I was up to. So weird!

Post # 27
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

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@Bostongrl25: I had a guy message me to ask me why I wouldn’t accept his friend request. I told him, “Why would I friend you? You’ve been a total jerk to me every time I’ve seen you since high school.” He replied with, “Can’t we just let bygones be bygones? Why are you holding such a grudge?” Uh, maybe because you don’t deny you were a jerk to me and yet have made no apologies for your behavior?

I don’t understand people…

Post # 28
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3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Yep, been defriended by several.  

Two were friends of my FI’s because I didn’t send them something a third friend had texted me (duh, I’m not going to break another person’s trust!).  Another was the Girlfriend, now Fiance, of a mutual friend/acquiantance (she accepted the friend request then later defriends me. whatever. she hates me, anyway, so I don’t care, lol). 

I’ve seen others say they were cleaning out their friends list but for whatever reason, they always keep me.  And I barely talk with ’em and never hang out with ’em.  

I only “defriend” and block those who piss me off.  I went through and removed a few who I questioned, but that had more to do with info getting back to my FI’s ex- than anything.  

Post # 29
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

I don’t care when people defriend me on FB. Most of the time we weren’t close anyway. The only time I even really notice is when it’s someone’s immature way of acting out (I know this one guy who get’s mad at me every so often over some trivial thing. He’s defriended me on FB twice). Even then I still don’t care, I just find it petty.

Post # 30
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

They are probably just paring down their friend list to people they talk to on a regular basis. I’ve gone through and defriended people in that way before. People I haven’t spoken to in years don’t need my daily updates, you know?

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