- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
I’m wavering between becoming overly-controlling-bride and going with the flow. My brother, who is my ‘man of honor’ (no bridesmaids) is organizing a combined stag/staggette for myself and my Fiance. (We like the idea of partying together best). The event is supposed to be in three and a half weeks. My brother has not yet invited anyone. He was supposed to send an email late last week, but ran out of time and then left on vacation for two weeks. Now, my friends are starting to ask about it and need to book their babysitters etc. Some don’t even know it will be happening, never mind when it is. I’m worried he will not be giving them enough advance notice. And then what if people can’t make it? I just emailed bro with as tactful a reminder as I could….I’m tempted to email our friends and let them at least know the date. But I also feel like a dork doing so. I’m a little frustrated with my brother right now…is this justified or am I being too A-type?