(Closed) delusional bridesmaid

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1040 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

I had a situation in my own wedding party where my Maid/Matron of Honor began insisting that my wedding was all about her. She was a good friend, but her behaviour made my life so much more stressful than necessary. I eventually had to ask her to step down from my wedding. This is an extreme case, but if it is causing you that much stress, it may be your only option. If you’ve talked to her on a few occasions, and she’s still insisting on acting this way, you may have to do something drastic.

I’ve been married for two years now, and I can honestly say that I don’t regret asking her to step down. My wedding ended up being a blissful and relaxing day, and the only girls who stood up for me were the ones that genuinely cared about me.

Hope this helps.

Post # 5
434 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

At times weddings can make people crazy but at the end when I read her response to your medical scare.. that’s just appalling that any friend would respond that way. I agree that maybe you should just not have her in your bridal party, although be prepared for the friendship to be ______ after that. 

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