(Closed) Demoting a MOH, BM,

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

i did. I had two maid of honors and one did all the work while the other one never answered call never wanted to do any planning and said she was sick of hearing about the wedding all togather. So after not hearing from her for weeks she finally called me and i just told her hey its not farr to have the other girl do all the work. I can’t have a a moh acting like this. I said it real nice but stern then i said so now your a bridesmaid. Then she said she thought it was dumb to have two maid of honors anyway so it worked out ok. Plus i told her im keeping the bm dresses till the wedding (im not just hers). if this strange behavior keeps happening idk if i will want her to even be a bm. No im not a witch im just a tender person and it hurts me the way she was acting there was allot of unmentioned dramma so someting needed to be done it hurt but it needed to be done.

Post # 4
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1115 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I wanted too for sure! Totally lacked the stones to go through with it though … now I’m glad I didn’t, she sorta redeemed herself at the shower and bachelorette party. 🙂

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