(Closed) Depending on other people…venting

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
771 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@thmpper:  Yes, a stiff drink might do the trick.  It’s hard to reel people in.  And I don’t take offense to this… your day isn’t as important to everyone else as it is to you.  It doesn’t make it right, but food for thought.

Would it work to offer to take her out for lunch/drinks after getting measured?  Sweeten the deal a little bit?  Otherwise, I would just express to her your concerns about the timing.  “Bridesmaid, it would be a huge load off to know I can check this off my list of things to do.  Can you commit to getting measured by X date?”

Post # 5
4272 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I hate it too, it is one of the reasons why I loathed group projects at school. I would just end up doing everything myself, because I couldn’t count on other people.

I had a few bridesmaid that were slow at ordering the dress, I worried alittle but it turned out not to be a problem.

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