(Closed) depressed…..my husband died.

posted 8 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 77
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh my, I am so so sorry for your loss. I can’t even begin to imagine how you may be feeling or going through. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family during this difficult time. ***hugs***

Post # 78
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628 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - Temecula, California

Oh love I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish I lived close to you I would visit you every day. Its not that that baby is all you have left of him its that. You will have a part of him with you. I believe this child is a blessing

Post # 79
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3361 posts
Sugar bee

Oh honey… I am sending so many prayers up for you ! And sending you love and hugs !

Post # 80
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

So very sorry for your loss, surround yourself with love and feel it’s warmth.  Words I am sure feel empty right now so give yourself a hug and know that it is a hug from all that care. 

Post # 81
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2559 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

This is the most heartbreaking thing I’ve seen on WeddingBee. I am so, so sorry for your loss.

Post # 82
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Praying for you!!!

Post # 83
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@starry:  

After you have that baby, hold her near and dear to your heart. Protect her and tell her all about her daddy. How wonderful he was and how happy he made you. Tell her how excited he was to get to meet her and that he loves her always. Feeling less excited about the baby now is ok, it is sad but everyone deals with tragedy in their own way and perhaps yu are just feeling this way for this short time. I have a very good feeling that once she is born and starts to grow, you will see your husband in her and that will bring you two even closer. I know there is nothing that anyone can say that will ease your pain and I am so sorry for your tragic loss. 27 is so young to have lost someone in this way. Just hold on to that precious baby girl of yours and don’t ever let her go.

Post # 84
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1523 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss!  

Post # 85
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Words cannot describe…..my sincerest condolences.

Praying for Strength and Peace during this difficult time.

We are here if you need to talk- you are NOT a debbie downer!

Post # 86
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3768 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

I’m so sorry for your loss.  I hope you can keep up your strength and your spirits as best you can!

Post # 87
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m really sorry. Such a tragedy.

Big Hugs!!!! One day, hopefully in the near future, you will know that the reminders of your husband through your baby are a good thing, and that apart of him will still always remain on earth, through your child, and in your hearts. <3

Post # 88
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Oh my lord. Honey I just can not even begin to tell you how much this makes my heart ache to read. I am sending you all the prayers and love and light in the world. There is nothing though that can help i know. I am so so so sorry. Bless you and your baby and may you both get through this. 

Post # 89
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

If you ever need to chat feel free to PM me.

My eldest son’s father died on the day I turned 12 weeks. That was one of the hardest things I have ever had to go through. We weren’t married so it made things very difficult for me later. I can understand how you feel, I wanted to die when he died. I couldn’t imagine my life without him. I came to love that child and live for him. That baby was the only thing I had left of him and I woke up every morning for that baby and not myself. I was terrified of losing my baby too and when he was born prematurely I thought I was going to lose him. He is now 14 and a handful. But if you need any help dealing with future issues please feel free to ask me anything.

Post # 90
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

words fail me.  I can not wrap my head around this, my heart is so heavy just reading this. I am so sorry for your loss.

you are in my thoughts and prayers.  We are here to support you in anyway we can.

xoxo

Post # 91
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I am so sorry. I wish I had words that could reverse time for you, that could take this pain away. I’m sending so much love to your and your baby honey. My sincerest condolences to you. (((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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