(Closed) depressed…..my husband died.

posted 8 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 107
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I am so sorry for your loss 🙁

Post # 108
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Sincere condolences to you at this incredibly difficult time in your life, this is absolutely heartbreaking, i can only imagine what you are feeling. I read this on my phone this morning and have been thinking about you all day, you will be in my prayers. I know that right now it seems like you are in a black hole but i promise it will get better. You should take your time grieving, do what you need to do for yourself. Stay with family, lean on friends.. people really do want to help. Try to eat and get good sleep, it will help your mind and your stress. I sincerely wish you all the best, you will be a wonderful mother because you will see your beloved husband in your beautiful baby. God bless, Starry xox

Post # 109
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Helper bee

you are a strong, amazing woman, just know that with time things will get better, have faith!!

Post # 110
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’m praying for you. I’m so sorry for you loss.

Post # 111
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Wow – my prayers/condolences are with you at this time. <3

Post # 112
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I am so sorry. You must take care of yourself and your baby  because you and I both know that’s what your husband would want for you.

Be gentle with yourself and do whatever gives you comfort and do allow yourself time to grieve.

I can’t believe that your in-laws would actually suggest that your marriage and baby had anything to do with your husband’s death – you already know that is not true, but those words still hurt. Try to distance yourself from them since such unkind words are a hinderance to your healing and you will lots of time and support to do that.

My prayers are with you!

Post # 114
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Helper bee

This made me cry.  I don’t know what to say.  You are in my thoughts.

Post # 115
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Sweetie, I’m so sorry about your husband’s passing.  You now have an angel watching over you and your daughter.  I hope that with time, you will be able to remember all the wonderful times you and your husband had together, and be able to share those times with your daughter. Biggest hugs ever xxxxxxxxxxxx

Post # 116
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’m so sorry.  If you were here, I would just hug you.  

Surround yourself with the people who make you feel comfortable and loved.  Do what you have to do (re: people and job) in order to create a peaceful space for you and your little one.  

Taking care of yourself and your baby is the number one thing you should focus on. My thoughts are with you and I’m sending all sorts of positive vibes your way, Friend.  Take care of yourself.

Post # 117
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

There are no words… I am just so so so so so sorry for your loss.  Do whatever you need to do for you and your baby.  Be with your family if that is what you feel will comfort you.  xoxo

Post # 118
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

This is so heartbreakingly sad. I am so sincerely sorry for your loss. I hope that you are able to benefit from as many support groups as possible, both formal and informal. Your family, his family, your friends, his friends; groups for widows, groups for new parents, groups for widowed parents, groups for single parents. They are all out there. Find the ones that click for you and do whatever, whatever, whatever you need to take care of yourself and get you through this unimaginably difficult time.

Post # 119
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Bumble bee

I couldn’t imagine. I am so, so sorry. We are all here for you. I sincerely wish the all the best for you and your precious daughter.

Post # 120
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

im very sorry this has happened to you, reading this has me choked up at work so I cant even imagine what you’re going through right now, but I do want you to know that you are never alone, he is with you always. it’s good you will be closer to your family and dont forget you have us at weddingbee too, think of us as an extended family.

its hard to imagine now that things will get easier but they will over time. i’ll be praying for you, the baby and your family <3

 

Post # 121
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I don’t even know you, but my eyes are filling with tears just imagining how you must be feeling.  Things are going to be hard, no doubt, but one day you are going to wake up and see your husbands face in that sweet little girl and know that a piece of him is still with you.  I’m so so very sorry that you are going through this. 

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