(Closed) depressed…..my husband died.

posted 8 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 122
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

As everyone else has said, I am so very sorry for your loss. I agree with PP’s that moving back in closer to your family and friends will help you get through this. And remember, time heals all hearts. I wish there were more words to say to help you heal, but there are not. Sending super hugs and prayers.

Post # 123
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Bee Keeper

Sending you hugs and prayers

Post # 124
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2008

Reading your post made me heartbroken for you, and I don’t even know you.  How devastating. Please get support – from your family, from others who know what it feels like, from a therapist.  This is too hard for you to do all on your own.  I imagine this baby is going to bring you great joy and great sadness.  Its a lot to deal with such deep, deep sadness and a baby on its way at the same time.  I’m so very sorry.

Post # 125
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Post # 126
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I am so very sorry for your loss. It is just so unfair and my heart goes out to you.

I’m sorry to hear about what your in-laws have said – I think when people are shocked or hurting they can lash out and be thoughtless. I’m sorry they have added to your pain.

As others have said, it might be worth talking to a bereavement counsellor.

And I just wanted to say it’s okay to be happy and sad at the same time. I am sorry. xxxxx

Post # 127
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Praying for you and baby!

 

Post # 128
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I have no words. I am so, so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you that you can find the strength you need.

Post # 129
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012 - the Columns Hotel

my heart breaks for you.  take care of yourself and baby. sending condoolences and hugs.

Post # 130
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@starry:  I can’t imagine how you feel, and I’m sure that everything we are typing to you now may just feel like empty words but we really do sympathize with you and your situation. I will keep you in my prayers. Take heart

Post # 131
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

wow — i have no words.  Please take all of the time that you need to grieve.  May you find stength and comfort in your wonderful memories with him.

Post # 132
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m so sorry. My thoughts go out to you and your baby.

Post # 133
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Sugar bee

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending big hugs your way

Post # 134
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I am so sorry to hear this.  I think it is best to be with your family now.  It is also definitely ok to have these emotions.  Find someone to talk to and let it all out.  My thoughts are with you.

Post # 135
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I’m so sorry for your loss.

Post # 136
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Don’t have words So sorry for your loss. My prayers go to you and your baby. I believe in soul living forever and may his spirit be with you and baby.

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