(Closed) depressing post

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
76 posts
Worker bee

I am sorry about this.

If it makes you feel better, we didn’t get the officiant we originally wanted because he was too pricey … now we are working with an awesome officiant and are even more excited about the ceremony.

Post # 4
Member
1379 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

Only thing I can think of that might help is to remind you that you are still marrying the person you want to spend the rest of your life with … which is the reason for all of these other people coming into your life. As long as you have him, you’ll be okay.

Post # 5
Member
27 posts
Newbee

Our childhood pastor died about a week after my cousin and I set our dates. It was absolutely devastating. I have been paranoid ever since… constantly worried about any possible disaster.

Finally, the boy just said to me "If we get married in Vegas, just the two of us, we will still be married. If we get married on a beach, just close friends and family, we will still be married. If we get married in a huge church, with every person we’ve ever spoken to in our lives, we will still be married. Now isn’t that the whole point??" and I had to agree.

Post # 6
Member
1458 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

I learned to roll with the punches. I had a bridal party distaster, 2 actually. But in the end it all worked out. I did feel terrible for a bit, but it will pass. Keep your head up, in the end it will all work out I promise!

Post # 7
Member
2292 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

We had a ridiculous amount of trouble finding an officiant – ended up with our FIFTH choice (who, by the way, did an amazing job).

Also, at the last minute, I had some very dear friends change their minds about coming due to work commitments, and family issues.  That was really disappointing.

And the day before the wedding I tripped and fell off my deck, and was pretty sure (for most of the 45 minutes that it took to stop the bleeding) that I had broken my arm.

My dad really kept me grounded through the whole thing – he kept saying that as along as I was there, Darling Husband was there, any officiant at all was there, and two witnesses, we would be married.  And the rest, really, was just a big party – very nice for all involved, but not that relevant to the actual goal of being married – bleeding or non-bleeding.  Which is completely true, if totally annoying to hear.

The topic ‘depressing post’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors