(Closed) Describe what it feels like to be a “waiting” bee in 1 sentence.

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 32
184 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@the_future_mrs:  LOL! yup. this describes it. except for me, it’s like “wait wait wait, I am.” “oh. no. nevermind, i’m not.” “wait, i think i am. i’m getting close.” “nope, nevermind.” LOL

Post # 34
9950 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

One word… CONFUSING !!

I was thinking marriage before he was.  Then he was thinking marriage, and then I wasn’t sure (Living Together is working for us).  Then we were on vacation, saw a Bride & Groom getting married on the beach in one of our favourite Destinations, and found ourselves BOTH talking marriage.  Then we were talking wedding details. 

Then we were looking at rings.  Now I’m SEARCHING for MY RING (can’t find anything that is screaming my name… to take it home).

Now he is excited about the Wedding & Engagement (telling everyone).  And I am frustrated about the “non ring” situation.  He is calm about the non ring, says “Honey it’ll take some time no doubt for you to find something special, something that you LOVE, something that is so us… something you’ll want to wear forever… don’t worry what it costs, it costs what it costs… its all good with me as long as you love it”

Sweet.  But I am still confused by all the choices out there.

And once I do find the ring, do I get a real proposal ?  I soooo want a real proposal as I didn’t get one for my first Engagement / Marriage.

BEFORE when it was just I talking marriage things were less complicated… since he’s come onboard, things are tons more CONFUSING !!

Lol (although I guess one could say in a good way)


Post # 35
47 posts
  • Wedding: August 2013

Gaining a true understanding of the phrase “you have the patience of Jobe!”

He’s had the ring since September…dude seriously? We ain’t gettin any younger here :/

Post # 36
1205 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

All of these really describe the frustration I feel most days! 

noodle4hdThis one is perfect! Love it! 


I feel like I’m always in a whirlwind, somedays I feel great, others I feel crappy, others I want to strangle him if he doesn’t stop talking about it! 

Post # 37
147 posts
Blushing bee

@Dell79: Laughing



@noodle4hd:  I almost cried reading that! Totally how that feels at times! 

Post # 38
1828 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

When you’ve been waiting a long time, it’s like when something you’ve been really waiting for gets delayed, like a game/CD/movie. The first time, you’re disappointed, but still excited. Then it gets moved back again, and again. At a certain point you wonder if you’re even going to buy the game/cd/go see the movie at all because you’ve just lost all excitement for it.


Post # 40
1133 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Very anxious!  I hate it sometimes, even though I pushed it back a year (he wanted to do it this year, but I wanted to wait til next summer for school reasons).  And now he keeps teasing me, trying to throw me off of when he’s going to do it!  And for some reason, now that I’ve said next year, I am OBSESSED with ring shopping lol.

Post # 41
1295 posts
Bumble bee

An emotional roller coaster and their is no end in sight.

Post # 42
1089 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2018



lol I love the man I really do, but come on propose already!

Post # 43
811 posts
Busy bee

Waiting: like part of your life is on pause

Post # 44
914 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Uncertainty over what seemingly every other girl has, but I lack!

Post # 45
716 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

So incredibly in love and wanting to take the next step, but powerless at the whim of boyfriend and frustrated that I don’t have control…

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