(Closed) DESPAIR: cancel wedding?????

posted 14 years ago in Emotional
Post # 62
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54 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2021

I was just reading this blog and noticed how many months ago the posts were written. Just curious have you gotten married yet? Hope all is well and you have/are figuring something out. If you haven’t gotten married maybe you can have your wedding and reception at the church. Some churches have rec rooms you may rent. And possible decor you can borrow! 

Post # 63
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72 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

we saved for our wedding for 2 very long years.  first we figure out how much everything would be and we moved on from there.  after we new the info we got a wedding planner and let her work her magic.  well i hopw that everythin works out for you good luck

Post # 64
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699 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

mrs.S2be — GetMarried4less has her own blog, and yes, she did get married in November!  You can visit her blog to read all about it!

Post # 65
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94 posts
Worker bee

Why not plan a $1000 wedding from the money your grandmother is giving you? You could have your pastor/ officiant meet you in a park, marry you in front of your ~15 closest friends/family and family and then have dinner in the private room of a restaurant. I know you want the traditional shebang, but the money issues might stress you and your finance out so much that you won’t even enjoy it.

And absolutely put your foot down about your mother trying to invite the entire church. No way you should be going into debt to finance her over-the-top dream.

As for the second half of your question, we are planning a $5K wedding and paying for it from our savings. We are a little older than you and have been working for a while. We are also completely debt-phobic.

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