MemberI think I would just not worry about the cousin, and carry on with your plans for your bachelorette.
And yes, you are free to post what you wish on social media, but you do also need to handle the consequences. And I do think that putting very much about weddings is not great, because unless you are inviting all your social media contacts, someone somewhere is going to be feeling left out.
Memberbewitched : true, thank you!
impatient1 : yeah I guess it is just the people pleaser in me haha. I definitely don’t want anyone to feel excluded but I have to draw the line somewhere. I am not the only one expressed that it would be a bad idea if she came, plus then I would have to invite her sisters. Thanks for the advice!
weddingmaven : she was not being tongue in cheek because she then replied “oh it’s a bridesmaids thing jk”. The things she does are really never out of malice but she does not have a filter and kind of interjects herself into your business. This is a girl that has screaming fights with her sisters and mom on holidays so her behavior definitely isn’t just reserved to me or the situation. She is just being her – very outspoken! But I appreciate your perspective! 🙂 it’s hads to explain without knowing her I guess haha.