Destination rental house wedding or traditional wedding??!

posted 2 weeks ago in Ceremony
Post # 2
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Honey bee

Without knowing other details, I would just keep the Oct wedding (assuming it’s local). Sounds like more effort doing the small ceremony in the summer then having a big bash afterwards (meaning planning 2 events plus it’s a destination wedding). I’m saying this because although boring to some,  I really like traditional and classic stuff. But obviously, you should do what you guys like best. ItsShannonK13 :  

Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

This is a super personal choice. I did the destination house rental wedding in favor of a larger affair. We did not do all the regular announcement stuff. We did have a dance, eat cake, and had a dance party. We did not follow up with a big bash after because the logistics didn’t make sense, and all of our close, every day people were at the wedding save a few. I wouldn’t change our wedding for the world. It was the right wedding for us. 

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Keep in mind that many rental houses through AirBnB and VRBO prohibit parties or large gatherings. 

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2020

I wanted so so sooooo badly to just rent a giant AirBnB somewhere fun and have our wedding there. But Fiance wants a traditional wedding so that’s what we ended up doing.  i say if both you and your Fiance are on board, go for it! You can still make it as “traditional” as you want–you don’t have to skip all the things! You can still get a DJ and have those things if you want them.

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