Post # 1
Fiance and I are planning a destination wedding in Ohau, Hawaii in July 2015 with family and friends, around 15-20 people. We wanted something small and intimate. We are planning on having a party a few weeks later at venue called the Pent House for around 70 guests. We really want it to feel more like a cocktail party/ celebration than a wedding reception. We want it to be “We got hitched, lets celebrate” feel. Need help with decor ideas? Do I do favors? What should the inviations say? We will have grazing stations for food. I was thinking my new husband will do a small cake, and do cupcakes for dessert for our guests? My fiance will probably not wear a tuxedo, and I will probably just wear a party dress. Please give me your thoughts, ideas, anything!! Thanks ladies!!! Please be kind.
This topic was modified 2 years, 10 months ago by missnikki828.
Post # 2
You can do this, but the most important thing is to make it very clear that people are not being invited to a wedding; they are being invited to an event to celebrate the marriage. So on the invite, I’d write something like:
“XX and XY were married on (date) in Honolulu, Hawaii. Please join us to celebrate their recent marriage at blah blah blah”
You’re having a party. Treat it like party. Make sure everyone knows it’s a cocktail party (so they know to eat beforehand and having their own dinner plans for afterwards, and so they’re not expecting like, dancing). Also, seeing as it IS just a party, and not a wedding, I would not advertise a registry (if you have one at all)–meaning, make no mention of it in the invite, and be prepared to receive fewer gifts.
Post # 3
Thank you!! Any other advice would from other bees would be appreciated…Thanks bees!!
Post # 4
missnikki828: We are doing something similar. Ours in May in Key West while our hometown is in Kentucky. There will be about 15 people coming to Key West and we are having a reception for about 150 at home.
We arent having “favors”, we are having a candy bar as the favor with personalized goodie bags that say thank you. Also having a photobooth. We wanted to just have a fun party. We are also having yard games, open bar(of course.lol), dancing.
Our invitation (the location changed, thats why I didnt erase that.lol)
Post # 5
My fiance and I are getting married in a private ceremony in Italy, then doing the cocktail “open house” reception back home when we return. Being as it’s about 4 months away now, I really need to get some invitations out soon but wasn’t sure exactly how I wanted them worded.
PS- @ChelseaGabrielle, we are neighbors!