- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
All, i would like to get your opinion. Me and my fiance are getting married in Maui, Hawaii. Is it a issue that the two main families might not stay in the same city as the bride and groom.
My point to her is that both families already made a commitment to us and if they both attend all planned events by the bride and groom, why does it matter where they sleep or spend there other time? If for whatever reason they choose a place other than what we recommend, it is on them to be available to our events as planned.
Her point is that if one family is far away (other side of island) that it is selfish and disrespectful. I understand her point of trying to make the families closer and have the togetherness, but i think that will be accomplished by planning out our events and bringing our families together.
What do you think?